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給聰明年長者幸福十誡*

* "Ten taboos to happiness " for the intelligent aged persons*

*一、不要再替成年子女操心，才不會碎碎唸。*

*Don't be concerned about adult children any more,otherwise, cannot
stop the annoying chatters.*

*二、不要再將成年子女當成未成年來「監護」，以免顧人怨。*

*Don't regard the adult children as of under age and serve as a
guardian for them, so to avoid incurring complaints.*

*三、不必事事都「非知道不可」，尊重已成年子女的隱私權、自主權。*

*No necessary to know everything, pay respect to the privacy and the
right of decision-making of adult children.*

*四、不要再以兒、孫為生活重心，尋找自己的園地，才不致天天望穿秋水。*

*Don't regard children and grandchildren as a center of life, look
for personal social circles, so to avoid trapping yourself in the dilemma of
anxious expectation and disappointment daily.*

*五、不要逢人就訴苦，寧可寫作、畫畫、練功、唱歌**,以藝術、創作昇華情緒。*

*Raise a habit of writing, painting, exercising, singing to sublime
your mood by arts and creation rather than complain to people coming across.
*

*六、不要凡事抱怨，多欣賞、感謝別人為取悅你所做的努力。*

*More admiration, less complaints and appreciate what other people
have Done for pleasing you.*

*七、不要因孫輩和子女媳婿爭執衝突，這樣只會惡性循環，害了你的孫輩。*

*Don't involve in the dispute between grandchildren and adult
children, this act just causes adverse effects in a bad circle and hurt your
grandchildren. *

*八、不要因病痛而唉唉叫，有病要治病，領了藥要服藥，治不好的要忍耐。*

*Don't cry over sickness, just go to see a doctor and ta ke the
necessary medicalpills as prescribed, and be patient if failed to cure.*

*九、不要疑心病太重，要感激還願意留在你身邊的人，免得最後連他也走了！*

* Don't be s ke ptical to others too much, be grateful to the person
who left around you, otherwise, he will go away from you too eventually.*

*十、要多多培養宗教情操，有堅定的信仰，對未來抱著開心、樂觀的態度。*

*Participate in religious activities often, be stick to belief and ta
ke pleasant,optimistic attitudes toward the future.*

如果以上十點，每一點是十分，祝福各位聰明的老人，都能幸福一百分。